The Act of Disagreements || Kashish Gupta

 The very basic disagreement starts when you stand against your mother for your outfit. Now, disagreeing with something doesn't mean you are against that thing, person, etc. If I'm not satisfied with your opinions, I have the authority to disagree with you. No one has the right to pressurize me to accept that thing. I can do whatever I want, I can follow the beliefs, I like to follow and I can take decisions based on my very own choices. 

You can try to change someone's thought processes, beliefs, etc but you have no authority to do the same violently or by the sort of any mental or physical torture. If you want to change the way of thinking of someone with respect to any issue, maybe political, social, etc, then you can do the same by any sort of explanations, validating your opinions on the basis of statistics and data and facts. Even if the person doesn't want to accept it, then it's the personal choice of the person. You just cannot make that person follow or believe the same forcefully or by some torture and that's the whole point, I wanted to highlight here.

These days, a number of incidences are taking place where people became so sensitive that they want everyone to believe and share the same ideology and philosophy that they share. They believe that they are right in everything, they have the best taste of everything, the way they are perceiving things is genuine and hence everyone needs to do the same. According to them, those who agree with them are so-called intellectuals while the rest are dumb. Now believing in this principle can be considered as their personal choice but if someone doesn't follow the mentality like yours then you try to dominate that person either forcefully or by pressurizing the person so that the other person also agrees with you. This may not be true every time but it happens often. Now, how can another person pressurize me to follow his ideology and share beliefs as him? This makes no sense, right? 

You're no one to tell me what to do and what not. My constitution had given me the right to chose and follow whatever I want.

People and obsession

Whenever you advise someone, you literally believe the person gonna follow your advice and hence this boosts your attitude, more often your ego. But when the person denies it, this hurts your ego and you start treating the person in a completely different manner, maybe by showing no interest in the person or by ignoring that person. Sometimes the person whose advice was rejected, felt completely pissed off that he, by hook or crook had to make the same person accept his advice and want that person to follow it at any cost, and to obtain this, he can do anything, maybe violence as well. And here the matter of violence begins and a disagreement gives rise to atrocity and violence.

Act of saying No

Saying No to someone is something everyone needs to learn. You should realize that the word 'No' is too powerful. This word can make as well as destroy territories. If you say 'No' to drugs and alcohol, it will be constructively effective but if you say 'No' to studies, hard work, hustle, etc. then it's gonna ruin your life. 

Now, saying No doesn't mean you are too Harsh or something like that. It simply meant you don't want to accept the offer. If you disagree with someone and you want to reject his offer, then simply reply with a No. You need not not to agree and reply with a big yes to any absurdity. You are the master of your attitude. You need to recognize the situation and act accordingly. If saying no is an option, then say it directly, no matter how harsh the other person felt. 

Disagreements and Lives

These days people became so sensitive that they are always ready to take violent actions, resulting in damage and destruction. No matter whether it costs someone's life or money. They simply believe their own ideas and beliefs and they want everyone other to believe and follow the same, which makes no sense, right? And because of this, there occur riots, etc and hence thousands of people die because of such a small issue. This whole thing could be sorted out just by understanding the perception of the another person as well. Sometimes some emotional sentiments are also connected with the whole perception. We can limit our thoughts of disagreement just by respecting others' opinions. Is your sense of superiority more important than the life of others? 

Start thinking and consider everything before passing judgments and validating others. You can change the mentality of others peacefully as well. This world requires humanity more than making anyone follow your blind beliefs.

Peace!!