The Cycle of Truth and Lies

 It's quite easy to escape any situation and run away from the mess created by just not speaking the truth. By simply lying, you can avoid any mishap or any circumstantial problem within a fraction of seconds. This seems quite interesting, but hold a minute let's try to understand the whole cycle associated with this simple process of lying or not speaking the truth.

No matter how avoidable but the influence of a deceptive statement is far more than the informative one or the real one. It's easy to manipulate someone by taking the help of lies. 

Truth is hard to speak. Truth is something that always exists while lies are needed to be created and then needed to be modified timely. Well, it's not any perception but the damn truth itself.

Try to recall the time, how often you take the help of lies and deceptive statements in order to prove your authority or to create an escape from the mess you created. I'm sure, there'd be numerous.

Pleasure of lies

Speaking lies usually fill you up with a feeling of pleasure, happiness, and satisfaction, though it's temporary still you keep on enjoying that temporary moment. The very basic instinct of humans to accept pleasures and avoid the harsh reality isn't something new. We're associated with it since old age. We keep on delaying the acts by simply confessing the lies and manipulating our subconscious to act accordingly. This ends up making us being addictive to the illusion of lies and a temporary state of happiness, that we'd achieved through our lies. This whole cycle is so addictive that we literally got no idea, when and how we entangle ourselves in the trap of lies and end up being dejected.

Steps of Entrapping yourself

Now, you're neither a liar nor an idol of truth by birth. You start experiencing the same via numerous situations. Life plays an important role in teaching you the same but the reality is we chose to adjust and act in the easiest way of all and hence we use to skip the subject of truth. We take the help of lies and start getting addicted to them.

With the passage of time, small steps towards lie turn us into the one, who is never supposed of speaking the truth. So, don't you think it's better to stop entrapping yourself into the small steps of lies?

You literally entrap yourself in the trap of lies just to avoid the situation of not being caught. It is wisely said,

''He who tells a lie is not sensible of how great a task he undertakes; for he must be forced to invent twenty more to maintain that one''.

     ~Alexander Pope

Lie - An Escape

Without any doubt, lies are the escape from your all problems whether psychological, biological, or social. You make excuses, in fact, lie to skip your daily tasks. You keep on feeding yourself with the false belief of you being the best. You always fulfill your desires on the basis of lies and that's the reality. You can't deny the fact that you don't use lies as an escape from your harsh reality of life. You enjoy this continuous process but the problem arises when your lies are caught and you end up facing the trial of truth.

Truth - The only Master 

In the game of truth and lies, truth is the ultimate winner. Lies can be the temporary solution to any scientific problem but the truth is the experimental verification of it. With the lies, you always masquerade fallacy. You literally keep on pushing yourself into the well of mistrust. You just dwell yourself into sufferance. 

 Truth is hard to explain and choosing lies over truth is often easy and choosing easy is the natural tendency of all human beings but the main reason to avoid lies is their consequences and the results they give. One day or the other, the truth will prevail and if you're not ready for it, you'll suffer. 

Stop taking the help of lies and bring prosperity to your life by following the path of truth.

PEACE!!

Your Own Error!

With the evolution of science and technology, we all are subjected to numerous changes. With time, technology advances and so our way of living. We are continuously adapting to the change, which is a necessity. We are trying to change our way of thinking, we are trying our best to fulfill the generation gap among our different generations, we try to familiarise ourselves with the advancing lifestyle and many more things. Change is the rule of nature and hence we need to accept it. If we ignore the change, it'd be difficult for us to survive then.

Now the question is What about the mentality? We are changing ourselves at a fast pace but only from the external aspect. We try to be the coolest among others but what about the cool mentality and cool sense of judgment?

Everyone is quite familiar with the storms created by social media these days. We regularly see different scams, different injustices, online trolling, cyberbully, and much more disgusting stuff. We are updating ourselves and try to act smart in front of society, friends, relatives, etc, but where the hell this mentality goes, every time you witness any fake propaganda or some serious online manipulation or any other bullshit stuff on the internet?

On the internet, everyone is free to express his thoughts, etc but the way, this power is being misused is a matter of worry. We shouldn't underestimate this part of social media where people are manipulated and are made to take unethical and serious steps. 

I still remember, a few months back a game naming Blue Whale was too viral on the internet. This game used the state of depression of a child to run its business. The game created so much hype everywhere, especially among teenagers, and as a result, a number of children committed suicide as well, in order to complete the task of the game. This makes the internet a serious concern.  

These days, everyone tries to be a social media judge or any intellectual analyst. Whenever someone posts any heartwarming story, our audience melts up and starts supporting the protagonist, without even cross-checking or confirming the story.

A few months back a child committed suicide because a girl uploaded a fake video claiming her molestation by that child. The reason behind it was the so-called internet judges, who lose their temper and started abusing and threatening the child without even investigating the whole reality. The child was around 16yrs of age. Imagine a 15-16 years old child under a continuous threat of being killed and mental pressure. The result was, the child committed suicide. And after his death, it was proved that the whole case was fake. Now, what happened? We lost a life. 

Real Problem

The real problem is our narrow spectrum of thinking. We start favoring someone by just listening to their one-sided story and ignoring the other side of the same story. We got manipulated so easily that we lose our senses every time we come to know about some injustice, violence, riot, murder, etc. We jump to the conclusion without even verifying the whole news. 

The very basic fact regarding social media these days is, Everything you see on social media is a lie (majority)

Well, I myself consider social media as a second profile of humans where you can show others the face you wanna show and the identity you want to reveal.

Thousands of people are living in problems of anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, etc due to fake lifestyles shown over social media by so-called social media influencers, cyberbullying, etc. People pass on vulgar comments so easily, without any fear. Does this mean, our cyber laws are not that strict?

These days online gambling is often promoted, even by big brands and many social media influencers. The irony is these people are termed social media influencers but the way they influence the public is really depreciating. They use to sell themselves for few pennies and hence start promoting anything without considering the harmful effects of the same.

THE ERROR;

Now, who the hell is responsible for all the stuff that is actually taking place over the whole internet and social media?

Who is responsible for promoting the fake influencers over social media?

Who is responsible to share everything without even cross-checking the same?

Who is responsible for sharing false news and manipulative videos over the internet?

Well, the answer to all the above questions is quite understood. We, ourselves are responsible for all this stuff. We need to understand the difference between what's right and what's wrong. We need to familiarize ourselves with the complete story before jumping to any conclusion. We need to widen our spectrum of judgment in order to witness a change.

PEACE!

You are the one!

 I usually see people blaming destiny for all their failures and loses. I know destiny exists but completely blaming destiny for everything without actually realising your own faults and mistakes doesn't make sense. 

I personally believe hard work is the primary factor and destiny is secondary. We have hard work within our hands so focus on it. Do more hard work and achieve your dreams. Why to blame destiny for everything?

Neither right Nor wrong,

Decisions are responsible, where you belong.

You're  responsible for whatever you chosen,

So, Why to say destiny was wrong?

Blaming destiny always is a lunacy,

Taking responsibilities should be your fantasy.

 Replace destiny with hardwork to fulfil your dream,

That's how you'll realise hard work is supreme.

~ Kashish Gupta