RULES TO DOMINATE || KASHISH GUPTA

 Everyone wants to dominate, whether a man or a woman, dominance is something signifying the essence of superiority. If you're in a room, your psyche demands your dominance in that room. Being recessive doesn't favor the law of existence. Hence there's a need to establish your dominance. 

What dominance really is!

Dominance is nothing but your ability to make an influence or an impact. It's the validation of your power and your strong influence over others. Now, mind it, I'm not favoring some dominance using violent methods or something like that. Here dominance is simply the ability to make a strong and powerful impact of your personality over others. 

This dominance separates you from the crowd and helps in raising your bar of self-esteem. It's your strong impact and your dominance over others that help you attaining a sense of leadership.

How to Establish dominance?

Your dominance decides how you're going to be treated in your society. So, I'm gonna describe five rules to build your dominance. Let's go! 

Rule 1: BE REAL

So, I'd seen people keep on pleasing others in order to gain attention or some appreciation in any term. This attention arouses the feeling of dominance. Now, there develops an idea of attaining this attention, by using the trick of pleasing others. In order to please others, they start acting fake. They continue wearing that mask of being counterfeit almost all the time just for attention, but what's the purpose of that attention? It's absurd, thinking that you go out of the way to please people just to make your impact. You just end up entrapping yourself in the pit of misery and deception. 

Now, it's quite obvious that we work on the principle of validations and appreciation and then establish a bar of our dominance accordingly, but there's no need of proving the same by hiding your reality and showing your fake side. It's wisely said, ''It's better to be real and rejected than being fake and accepted.

Rule 2: DON'T LIE

Lie forms the pillars of your insecurities. You're not confident of yourself and hence you take the advantage of lies. This lies feeds you with a sense of satisfaction, that is just meant to fulfill your hunger for supremacy for just a short span and finally ends up entrapping you in the pit of regrets and resentments. So, how can someone make a dominant effect by lying. By lying you not only betray others but your very own self as well. This lie doesn't gonna satisfy and validate your existence in the long go, so, it's better to speak the truth, no matter, how hard and painful it is. Say a big 'No' to lies. 

Rule 3: EMPATHIZE

You can easily dominate someone by empathizing. The two most important components associated with empathy are Compassion and Sympathy. You can easily dominate any conversation and make a deep impact of your speech by expressing the same using others' end of perspective and by showing some compassion for them. Empathy forms one of the most important components for bringing out the best conversation and hence is the most desired communication skill. A person is a leader not because he knows how to make people work instead, he knows how to bring the best out of people by empathizing them and showing sympathy, instead of aggression and apathy. Empathize to dominate any communication!

Rule 4: FACE YOUR FEARS

So, the very basic thing that hits our mind while discussing this whole topic of dominance is Strength, Confidence, Power, etc. No one ever thinks of fears because we are neither programmed nor prepared to overcome our fears. This society made you so fragile that you don't subject yourself out of your comfort zone. You don't want to participate in a game involving risks and failures. Your fear of failure, etc never let you dominate the situation. You are unable to express your thoughts freely because of fear of being judged, you don't compete because of your fear of failing. This all doesn't strengthen you, instead makes you weak and underconfident as hell. Your ability to face your fears determines your dominance in the room. Face your fears and let your courage speaks about your dominance.

Rule 5: EXPECT APPRECIATION BUT DONT RELY ON VALIDATIONS

Now, you probably did something marvelous and out of the box. In your eyes that thing stands extreme and beyond the level but it's quite possible that your mate may find it boring or not up to the mark even. You were expecting appreciation, instead, you got demotivating comments and dejections. After the whole thing, you were disappointed and resentful. This ultimately leads you towards misery and disappointments because you relied on the validation of the same person. You don't need to rely on anyone's validation. If someone appreciates you, it's well and good, but if he criticizes you or demotivates you, don't let that stuff hit your consciousness. Believe in yourself and don't rely on others validations to prove yourself. You are the king of your castle and you are the only dominant person out there.

Don't be a Retard, Be a Leader.

Learn to dominate!!!!